You know, yesterday's post got me to thinking... I absolutely LOVE having my nipples played with, tortured, sucked, etc. Yet if I try to play with them myself, while masturbating, for example, I get little to no pleasure from it at all. Even before Daddy and I started our life together, it has always been this way. I mean, even though I'm not allowed to cum, I still enjoy playing with my clit, so it would stand to reason that I would also like playing with my own nipples.
My "girls" are hypersensitive and respond quickly to cold or to Daddy's touch, but when I touch them, they might as well be dead! I'm not complaining about this fact, but rather I'm curious. In fact, I find it arousing and erotic that only Daddy can make my nipples ache with desire...
Does anyone else have this issue? Is this a by-product of being deeply submissive? Are there any other erogenous zones that you have that only respond to a lover's touch? :)
3 years ago
I have a similar thing - it feels quite nice to touch my own nipples but not particularly yet arousing, yet delicious when Sir touches me. Similarly, I can't get myself off using my fingers (I have to use a vibe) but Sir can, usually very quickly. Part of it is mental, I suppose, in that our brain is responding to the sexy situation as well as the physical sensation. Another part is that we are simply more sensitive to another's touch - this being the reason why (or so I am told) we can't properly tickle ourselves.
ReplyDeleteMy nipples are hyper-sensitive. Clothing brushing against them while bra-less is stimulating. Someone else touching them lightly or really playing with them sends me over the edge. But me touch my own nipples there is a little sensation but not arousing.
ReplyDeleteWeird, eh?
Totally understand here. I have the same problem. When Master plays with them it drives me insane and I love it. When I play with them my mind seems to go "Yeah well this isn't the same so.... no." Lol.
ReplyDeleteI think the clit is just excited to be touched, there are times that sitting certain ways can make my jeans hit it just right and suddenly I'm turned on. It's always better when Master plays with it, but at least I can get off to doing it myself if need be (or ordered to, lol)
The nipples have higher standards ;)
Oh my god yes! I have often tried that, when masturbating, just because at that precise moment i so desperately want them to be touched...but no matter how much i pull, pinch or twiddle...
ReplyDeletenothing...a big, fat, zero!
..how weird is that? i thought it was just me, lol.
Curiouser and curiouser!
I would be interested to know whether it makes any difference if your owners/masters order you to play with your nipples. Does that enhance the satisfaction at all?
ReplyDeleteSorry that it's taken me so long to respond to your comments, folks! :) As always, thanks for writing and for, yet again, reminding me that I am not alone! If we could come up with a way to enhance personal nipple play, I'm thinking we'd strike it rich! Those pesky nipples can be an enigma...and then sometimes they can be perfectly lovely...ahhhh!
ReplyDeleteAnd Dom Tom, that's an excellent question! Although I can't recall that Daddy has ever ordered me to play with them, I doubt that it would make much of a difference. It's like ariia says, it's ok if I do it myself, but there's nothing like when Daddy/Master does it for me! :)
Take care all,
Baby Girl :)