08 January 2013

What Is Going On Here?

This is a picture from a Wired story on John McAfee, wealthy entrepreneur who chucked his life in the US and moved to Belize some years ago. He has been on the lam and just recently returned to the US to avoid extradition back to Belize. Anyway, this is the 67-year-old McAfee with his current girlfriend, the 20-year-old Belizean Samantha Vanegas:

Take a close look at that image. (If clicking on it doesn't work, you can see a very large version here.) Now, I know pictures often capture moments in time that aren't necessarily representative of a scene as a whole, but still, I'm curious: what is she doing in this picture?

As a Dom, my default assumption is that in this situation, the man would be the Dom and the girl the sub. But I have no evidence for that other than their respective ages, and her poor background contrasted with his wealth. And even if they are in a Dom/sub relationship, what is she doing? Is she letting him know she wants to suck his cock? Is she begging him to kiss her deeply? Some other sexual signal? Or am I on the wrong track here?

07 January 2013

Spooning Barbecue

Nearly every night, baby girl and I fall asleep spooned together, on our left sides, me behind her, her head resting on my left arm, and me holding her by one or both wrists. Whether we've just had sex or haven't had it in days, we both find that this helps remind us of our respective roles... and it just feels right.

During the night, we nearly always shift positions in our sleep such that we're no longer intertwined like that and I'm no longer holding baby girl's wrist or wrists. When I wake up -- which is always before baby girl -- I'll often pull her to me and resume our sleeping position while we still have time before the alarm goes off.

If I'm feeling like taking baby girl that morning, sometimes I'll reach around with my right hand and put a finger in her mouth for her to suck on. Baby girl is very oral and loves having fingers (and other things) in her mouth, and I love the feeling of her sucking on me like that -- if I'm not already hard, it will make me so in moments.

A few weeks ago, we were having a morning just as I've described above. We were spooned together; I was holding baby girl's left wrist in my left hand, and I had my right thumb in her mouth. She had fallen back asleep in that position and it was quite satisfying for me as I enjoyed the moment, thinking about things that would push me over the edge and decide to wake her up by rolling her onto her back and fucking her.

Baby girl had been asleep a few minutes when she bit down on my thumb, fairly hard, between the first and second knuckle. I made a growling sort of "ouch" noise and told her no and to be gentle. She woke up and stopped biting me.

Later on, when she was fully awake, baby girl explained what had happened:

"I was having a dream and suddenly there was barbecue in it. I thought, 'Yum!' and chomped down on it."

This has led to an inside joke of ours, just four words:

"Barbecue? Yum! Chomp! Ouch!"

Of course, we can't share this joke with anyone else, because for it to make sense, you'd have to understand that we sleep with a finger or thumb in baby girl's mouth, and, and... we just don't want to go there. It's nice to be able to tell the joke here.